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<channel><title><![CDATA[Interracial Erotica - Comments for blog: Why I Don't Write Rape Based Stories--Blogzilla]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[https://interracialerotica.net/erotica]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>blueartllc@gmail.com</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 14:25:49 CDT</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #1]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4185</link><description><![CDATA[I know all too well you're feeling about rape.  I was seven years old when my mother's friend's husband tried to rape in the downstairs apartment, but I fought like crazy.  I bit his hand so damn hard  I drew blood.  The next week he robbed a junior food market and was arrested.  I didn't tell my mother until I was 9 about what happened.  I was so shame, so embarrassed.   I hated even the thought of sex for a long time.  As a child, naturally my sense of the experience was dwarped.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Ebony at 9:16 am, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Ebony)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 09:16:32 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4185</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #2 (Reply to Comment #1)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4187</link><description><![CDATA[Good the bastard got what he deserved. I can understand why you were ashamed but, as for me, I was never ashamed. I don't talk about it openly but if asked I will share my experience proudly. Did I provoke the attack? Nope, all of the shame and blame lie with him.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 10:00 am, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 10:00:05 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4187</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #3]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4186</link><description><![CDATA[Here is my three prong reaction:

1) *hugs*

2) Obviously his punishment wasn't sufficient since he had children.

and

3) He should get his ass kicked every year on the anniversary of your violation.

Looking for my happy place ...<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Lydia at 9:55 am, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Lydia)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 09:55:35 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4186</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #4 (Reply to Comment #3)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4188</link><description><![CDATA[LOL! I'm going to tell my BF to kick his ass every year. She'd love nothing more. What's strange is I came out of it better than anyone else. It seemed everyone around carried scars...even to this day. 

My ex Johnny was never the same afterward...his relationship with women has been horrible at best (very protective). Two failed marriages...and this from one of the best guys I know. We're still great friends but his love life is a horror movie.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 10:11 am, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 10:11:35 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4188</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #5]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4189</link><description><![CDATA[WOW! I 'm glad that at such a young age you were able to cope with what happened and not let it define you life and sexuallity.  Fortunately, I have never been sexually assulated.  But a very good friend of mine was  moloested by her uncle as a child.   I have seen how it's has effected her and her relationships with men.  She definately still stuggles with it  today.  Much respect to you parents you giving you skills to cope so well in that situation .  I agree with Lydia if the idots  was still able to father childern then clearly his punishment wasn't hash enough! lol<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Crystal at 11:27 am, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Crystal)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 11:27:46 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4189</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #6]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4190</link><description><![CDATA[Tracy, thanks. I'm going to tell you and your readers something that only my ex knows. I too was raped, at 11yrs old, by my stepbrother. Unlike you, I KNOW I haven't dealt with it completely. No counselling as I didn't let my family know, as I felt really ashamed and to blame. You see, I think, can't remember a lot of that episode, I was flirting with him?, at least that's what he said?. I honestly don't know, but I do recall he grabbed me (he's 10yrs older) dragged me into the bathroom of his mother's house and raped me there. I recall unsteadily walking home with what I realised later was blood and semen running down my thighs. I've skewed the whole sordid abuse in my mind and that's perhaps the main reason I can't feel sexually attracted to and have never had a sexual relationship with a black man after being rape, although I certainly don't hate them, afterall, it was my stepbrother and not the whole black male population that abused me. I went into my first relationship when I turned 19yrs with my ex and he believed (like I did!), I was a virgin. He and I both were shocked to find out I wasn't and hence why he knows of what happened. I've obviously spent years before I met my ex convincing myself that I was a virgin and only confronted the truth of what happened to me after my ex and I got physical.  Suffice to say, he never met my stepbrother, but that's because neither I (or my family) don't know where he is or even if he's alive.

So I too am NO FAN of rape in any stories. In fact I'm adamant that the author warns one of such so we're given the choice to read/purchase or not. I've made the mistake of once reading such a free read on another site, and had nightmares for weeks, finally having to drown my mind with weed and alcohol.

Hope you don't mind me posting as anon. Feel more comfortable that way, but you know who I am.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by anonymous at 11:29 am, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (anonymous)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 11:29:26 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4190</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #7 (Reply to Comment #6)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4193</link><description><![CDATA[Thank you for sharing. It amazes me how people can commit such violent acts and then move on as though nothing has happened. Meanwhile, the victims have to sort themselves out...we're left with the scars. Kerma is a bitch. Sooner or later they get what's coming to them...we, the victims, don't have to do a damn thing.

I too wish more writers would send up a red flag when a story involves a rape scene. They have to do done properly even when it role playing. Sorry to hear about your experience on the other site. If you need to chat you know where I am. :)

** I encourage everyone to comment, anonymous or not. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable. We're here to figure this thing called life out together.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 2:36 pm, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 14:36:04 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4193</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #8]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4191</link><description><![CDATA[I have a friend that is 44 years old and was molested by her older brother repeatedly in their home. He too threatened her, but she finally told her parents and other brothers and sisters and they basically put the blame on her. She didn't seek out counseling or anything, she started running the streets and had numerous boyfriends that just used her. Too this day she is marrried with 5 kids and the man she married is an abuser, but she will not leave him. It used to be physical but now more mental abuse.
This brother is now serving time in prison for having touched his girlfriend's daughter and has since apologized to his sister. If your attacker is married and has kids, his wife doesn't know. You are a very strong person, and I'm glad you didn't let that stop you from living and enjoying life to the fullest.  All that would have done is let him win and no way could you let that happen.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Wanda at 12:21 pm, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Wanda)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 12:21:32 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4191</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #9]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4192</link><description><![CDATA[Tracy you truly are amazing.

Lydia, if you find your happy place, do you have room for two?<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Olga at 12:26 pm, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Olga)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 12:26:53 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4192</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #10]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4199</link><description><![CDATA[WOW! Thanks you all for sharing your stories. If nothing else I can say that we talk ALOT on this site. To the folks that emailed me on the backend, join the rest of us. We don't bite...oh, Heidi, Crystal, Yves and Wanda bite but everyone else is cool. :) Oh Lydia and Carol nibble.


Going through something like this leaves cracks in you. And if we don't tend to those cracks the problem gets increasingly worse and impacts the way we deal with people...aka relationships. Wanda, your friend is a classic example. I wish her the best.

I'm strong because I had a sturdy foundation already laid to cope with big problems when and if they occurred. Sadly, more folks don't. Crystal, be glad you've never had to go through it. *smh*<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 10:40 pm, Mon 31st May 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 31 May 2010 22:40:29 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4199</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #11 (Reply to Comment #10)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4209</link><description><![CDATA[Lol!  now come on I don't bite unless a guys asks me real nicely!  Yes I know I have been fortunate and blessesd to have not been  in that situation.  I see how my friend struggles.  The problem is her family basically has not really dealt with what her uncle did to her.  They have never talked about it or taken her to get any kind of help.  I tried suggesting to her to join a support group or speak with a pychiatrist. But she has so I don't really know how else to help her.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Crystal at 5:11 pm, Tue 1st Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Crystal)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 01 Jun 2010 17:11:06 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4209</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #12]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/475/Why-I-Dont-Write-Rape-Based-Stories--Blogzilla.html#Comment4205</link><description><![CDATA[well who could understand as it not happen too, but You're manage to feel more what we couldn't sometime so we have to learn from You like love could help to appreciate your way & more...of course like tired eyes...by reading...of course!<br/><br/>
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