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<channel><title><![CDATA[Interracial Erotica - Comments for blog: The Issue of Ménage à Trios]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[https://interracialerotica.net/erotica]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>blueartllc@gmail.com</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 09:03:06 CDT</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #1]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4584</link><description><![CDATA[Last year, I discovered that I do enjoy menage a trois stories.  The first menage a trois story I read involved a MFM relationship. Once I discovered I enjoyed the stories, my reading preference for menage a trois stories became a MFM coupling.  I like the concept of a woman getting all her sexual needs met by two men at the same time. Furthermore, I don't have a problem with bisexuality being a part of the storyline.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Lydia at 12:52 am, Sun 27th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Lydia)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 27 Jun 2010 00:52:17 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4584</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #2]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4585</link><description><![CDATA[I found that I like many of the stories based on menage a trois but I often wonder, "how can they share"?  "Isn't someone going to be jealous at some point and topple the relationship down?"  So, I decided that it takes some very STRONG, confident and secure people to keep such a relationship flourishing and special and lasting.  I find I prefer MFM and everyone to be heterosexual.  I guess I would rather both guys want the girl and want to satisfy her by either taking turns or going at it together with her rather than at any point focus on each other.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Debbie B at 1:55 am, Sun 27th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Debbie B)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 27 Jun 2010 01:55:58 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4585</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #3]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4590</link><description><![CDATA[That's my thing with menage based stories too Debbie, "how can they share"? In most of the ones I've read I see the author giving one of the men more intimacy with the female lead than the other and that irks me. If it is a menage then they both shoud have equal time with the female. I don't have a problem with anyone of them being bi-sexual.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Wanda at 9:01 am, Sun 27th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Wanda)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 27 Jun 2010 09:01:30 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4590</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #4]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4593</link><description><![CDATA[I love  menage  based stories.    I think  the draw for me is the whole idea of two sexy men coming together and catering to  all of the females sexual desires at the same time.  As i'm sure you guessed I prefer MFM couplings. I wouldn't say it's a turn off but more of an observation.  The  menage  books I have read to me haven't really dealt with the reality of a menage based realationship would probally encounter.  It like three characters don't experince any issues or backlash  from their freinds , familiy or society.  Also like Debbie B.  touched on there's  never seems to be and issues  of jeaslousy where one person for whatever reason feels left out or is threatened by the conection they feel the other two charcters might share.  These would be real issues the people who choose that type if realtionship would have to face.  I have read a few stories where the two male characters were bi- sexual.  I actually  thought it was kind of hot. I didn't have any  issues with it.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Crystal at 11:21 am, Sun 27th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Crystal)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 27 Jun 2010 11:21:41 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4593</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #5]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4595</link><description><![CDATA[I prefer the MFM couplings. I actually discovered this 2 years ago while reading a paranormal romance.  I do however get turned off if there is no proper storyline. It also doesn't bother me if the two male characters are bi-sexual it just makes the story more interesting<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Sherece at 10:38 am, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Sherece)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 10:38:43 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4595</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #6]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4596</link><description><![CDATA[Although I can consume group sex pornos, preferrably mfm, I'm no fan of reading it. Have read a couple, by some really good I/R erotica authors, but they left me cold. I think they didn't capture my imagination and convince me to the point that these characters could be in love. What I've noticed though with myself, is that if the author could sell it to me, like with porn, no romantic feelings involved, just plain getting off each other, then it would be more appealing, but too many try to sell  this romantic ideal, that I can't fathom, as it boggles my mind that 3 (or more) people could share each other like that in a romantic way. Lustful, oh yeah.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by cccH at 1:05 pm, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (cccH)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 13:05:29 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4596</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #7]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4601</link><description><![CDATA[I like to read erotic romance stories with ménage à trios.  I read only mfm.  The problem with ménage a trios stories is that they live strictly in there fantasy world, it’s like the setting of the book doesn’t leave the bedroom. As Crystal mentioned I would like to know what happens when reality kicks in, i.e. the opinion of friends, family, etc… Also I would like to read about more in-depth characters.  What are their reasons for wanting a ménage à trios relationship? Is it security, to have a sense of belonging or is it strictly about sex?  What happens when they discuss the future and/or children?  
I don’t know if my response is pertaining to a possible book or short story.  If it’s for a book then it would be nice to have details, details, details.  Character details, relationship details and of course sexual details.  If it’s for a short story then I can settle for just great sex scenes ;0)<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Calvetta at 8:10 pm, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Calvetta)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 20:10:38 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4601</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #8]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4602</link><description><![CDATA[Oh and a major turn off for me when I read ménage a trios has to do with bad sexual sequences.  This is not in just ménage a trios stories, but I’ve noticed it in at least two so far.  Maybe it’s the future doctor in me I don’t know, but what I do know is that I don’t want to read about a man performing anal sex and then going straight into vaginal or oral sex without properly cleaning himself.  That’s just a trip to the gynecologist, gastroenterologist and every other kind of specialist you can think of waiting to happen.  I know this is a weird analogy but it always makes me think of when I was a kid being potty trained and my mom would say “wipe from front to back, not back to front”. Lol. The writer might not have noticed because he/she was caught up in the sex, but for some reason it makes it hard for me to finish reading the scene.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Calvetta at 8:40 pm, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Calvetta)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 20:40:59 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4602</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #9]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4604</link><description><![CDATA[Did some one say ménage? Hell yeah! I'm in! Oh wait, you said do I like to read them. My bad, Tracy! Of course I love to read them. 

Of course I seem to be out of the norm because I like m/m/f over m/f/m but I enjoy...errr read both. 

Bring it on Tracy! Olga, you have already brought it and keep it coming! Woo!<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Stephanie Morris at 9:02 pm, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Stephanie Morris)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 21:02:54 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4604</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #10 (Reply to Comment #9)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4606</link><description><![CDATA[Hot Damn! Stephanie is awake! When are we going to get a ménage from you?

Olga will be coming out with one fairly soon. I have a small one in the works. ;-)<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 9:08 pm, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 21:08:22 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4606</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #10 (Reply to Comment #9)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4609</link><description><![CDATA[LOL! I am always awake Tracy. Sometimes a little too much for most ;-)

I can definitely try to squeeze in a ménage. I already have 2 others stories in the works for the site. Might as well add one more...<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Stephanie Morris at 9:16 pm, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Stephanie Morris)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 21:16:34 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4609</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #10 (Reply to Comment #9)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4612</link><description><![CDATA[Woman, don't over do it. Jeez, don't make Greg bench you as well. He letting me have a little freedom...when he reads this thread you'll be benched!<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 9:19 pm, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 21:19:49 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4612</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #10 (Reply to Comment #9)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4626</link><description><![CDATA[No, when Greg reads this thread you will be benched. LOL! I'll be allowed to carry on as I always do...<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Stephanie Morris at 10:21 pm, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Stephanie Morris)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 22:21:58 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4626</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #14 (Reply to Comment #9)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4657</link><description><![CDATA[Stephanie,
Do you mean you prefer f/f/m? because m/m/f and m/f/m what's the difference?<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Judy at 1:24 am, Wed 30th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Judy)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 30 Jun 2010 01:24:59 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4657</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #15]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4608</link><description><![CDATA[Thanks everyone for your input. Believe it or not, a few authors are reading this thread for your advice, LOL! So bring it on....

Trust me, we're noting everything you're saying.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 9:12 pm, Mon 28th Jun 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 28 Jun 2010 21:12:50 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4608</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #16]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4678</link><description><![CDATA[Well, I it is pretty clear that I am not bothered by a menage story.  I can tell that writing one is a B#&^@! Giving everyone equal time in the story, let alone during the sex scenes is just ridiculous.  I haven't even delved in the the gynecological issues that Calvetta mentioned, but now I am on guard about that.  Oh no! My brain hurts...<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Olga at 9:02 am, Fri 2nd Jul 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Olga)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 02 Jul 2010 09:02:37 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4678</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #17 (Reply to Comment #16)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4687</link><description><![CDATA[My mentor gave me a piece of advice that I've tried to write by: Characters should change every third line. 

She gave me some very good examples of well written menages and you know what....bang on...they changed every third line! They followed the same formula all of the way through the story. Tricky writers!!<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 3:06 pm, Fri 2nd Jul 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 02 Jul 2010 15:06:47 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4687</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #18]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4713</link><description><![CDATA[For me it is M/F/M but at times I like a good M/M/F. Especially when both men are bi and it's interracial. Hey I am in romance heaven. Two good looking men from different ethnicity want you(BW). You can not get no better than that. Some M/M/F stories start off with both men been gay it doesn't really work unless there is reason why a woman was not in beginning of the relationship I can't picture it both men are gay and one day they want a woman. I can't wrap my mind around that, I just don't see it. As long author explain why she was not there okay I can get it. What I don't get and I have at least one story of M/M/M or F/F/F, I don't get it and I did not like it. What was the purpose...really...WHY?<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Cinquetta at 9:35 pm, Sun 4th Jul 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Cinquetta)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 04 Jul 2010 21:35:48 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4713</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #19]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4878</link><description><![CDATA[I stumbled across this blog and wasn't going to write anything (I have this horrible disposition of lurking) but it really surprises me how many people can enjoy a m/f/m. I am female and having all my needs catered to by two men sounds divine, but what about the men? Yes, there is still the woman, but how can you be in a relationship with a sort of convoluted one sided connection? I prefer m/m/f simply because the relationship is developed from all sides. M/f/m's tend to be all about the woman and for sex that's fine but in a relationship that'll ultimately lead to jealousy.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Kiana Nguyen at 5:25 am, Sun 25th Jul 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Kiana Nguyen)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 25 Jul 2010 05:25:38 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4878</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #20 (Reply to Comment #19)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4879</link><description><![CDATA[Thanks for coming out of the shadows, Kiana. I love hearing from new readers.

I think the reason women lean towards M/F/M relationship is as you stated: It's all about their needs being met. Having never been in a poly relationship, I'd imagine it would working only if there was a solid foundation (friendship/love) in place before anything began. 

I'm just spit-balling. :)<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 6:38 am, Sun 25th Jul 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 25 Jul 2010 06:38:51 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment4879</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #21]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5112</link><description><![CDATA[In no particular order. OK, *maybe* the order is from less romantic to more romantic.

I said this once already, but I find ALL of the anal trends in porn to be more than a bit of a horror show. Doesn't matter what sort of anal play you might want to try or are already indulging, almost every time I see anal in porn, even without the dreaded (blechh) ATM scenes I want to shout you're doing it wrong.

Even a show like CALIFORNICATION took care last seasons to explain (with humor) everything that can go wrong when some very basic hygiene issues are ignored. 

Which is not to say anal can't be great. As one friend once told me (I have no idea if this is true, "6 degrees warmer and about about 12 more muscles used!" Truly, your mileage may vary - but there ARE very real health guidelines. I'm yammering on about this because with porn driving trends I worry about a generation of kids having health problems I didn't even learn about from books until I was in my late twenties.

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Menage stories are easier if you're just doing sexual one-offs (or "three-offs") but as a sustained relationship with three sexually active partners in an exclusive relationship where each person loves the other I find that harder to swallow. Oh my. ANYways...

As for the physics... well, it's all good until you get to "crossed swords" and ball slapping "issues." 

So, are you going to describe that? If your target audience is women it probably doesn't matter. If it's guys, well, I can imagine losing at least half of them on that one. But that's just a guess.

On the other hand, IF you make that an "issue" you could probably do some light comedy about three people negotiating that very tricky flesh-in-flesh-on-flesh percussive territory.

As for FFM, well that sounds lovely but I hope the women are bi or that guy is going to need to be some sort of multi-tasking master juggler. 

If memory serves.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Barney at 10:58 pm, Sat 14th Aug 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Barney)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 14 Aug 2010 22:58:13 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5112</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #22]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5129</link><description><![CDATA[Hmmm. Didn't mean to kill that one in it's tracks.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Barney at 7:19 pm, Sun 15th Aug 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Barney)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 15 Aug 2010 19:19:51 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5129</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #23]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5130</link><description><![CDATA[Barney you didn't kill anything. I haven't had the time to address your response yet. I will...I promise. :)<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 7:26 pm, Sun 15th Aug 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 15 Aug 2010 19:26:34 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5130</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #24]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5133</link><description><![CDATA[NO rush and NO worries. I just stress after the fact because I keep using essentially x-rated/non erotica imagery in what is meant to be an erotica forum. Losing the forest for the cunny or, what have you.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Barney at 9:07 pm, Sun 15th Aug 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Barney)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 15 Aug 2010 21:07:42 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5133</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #25 (Reply to Comment #24)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5168</link><description><![CDATA[Umm... Tracy? [looks down, stares at shoes, shuffles]   umm...

ménage à  "trois"<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Barney at 11:13 am, Tue 17th Aug 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Barney)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 17 Aug 2010 11:13:13 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5168</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #26]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5169</link><description><![CDATA[Alright, I can’t even address the anal talk. *shivers*  Handling the cross swords bit is what some authors have an issue with. Some go the Bi-male route while others (such as myself) would avoid mentioning the balls altogether.

Balls aren’t exactly hot. Yes, men need them however most women don’t want to read about them—it’s not a turn on.

Menage stories are more difficult when there are actual feelings there. So yes, the one-offs are easier to pen. There has to be a strong male figure if the relationship is FFM. A weak male character would destroy the story in a heartbeat. There also has to be a more dominate female…not saying that one has to be a push over. What I’m saying is that there has to be a balance of power.

If the formula is mucked around with too much or goes undeveloped, then the readers will trash.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 11:58 am, Tue 17th Aug 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 17 Aug 2010 11:58:01 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/505/The-Issue-of-Menage-a-Trios.html#Comment5169</guid></item></channel></rss>