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<channel><title><![CDATA[Interracial Erotica - Comments for blog: What Happened to Real Men?]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[https://interracialerotica.net/erotica]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>blueartllc@gmail.com</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Thu, 21 Oct 2010 19:53:47 CDT</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #1]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5789</link><description><![CDATA[Wow, you have no love for the Biebs! :D Have you seen the website, Lesbians that Look like Bieber? HILARIOUS!  I agree, where are the real men who don't complain and whine about their hair or the way they look, 24/7? I love men who dress like they stepped out of GQ, but I also love a man that is athletic and willing to do some hardcore work, like chopping wood or building something. Too many soft men out there. I do love the tri-athletes and marathon runners though..yummy. What's wrong with asking a man to run 14 miles with you, but pick you up when you want them too? HUH? sheesh. I get tired of out of shape guys looking at me like they want to eat me alive, and refuse to head to the gym with me. I'm not the only who will be at the gym Mr.  I'm not sacrificing my sleep for nothing to hit the gym or go for a run before work....oh boy! *end of rant* See what you started Tracy?? :P<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Keisha at 8:41 am, Sun 17th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Keisha)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 17 Oct 2010 08:41:15 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5789</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #2 (Reply to Comment #1)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5800</link><description><![CDATA[I'll have to check it out. Thanks! We share the same taste in men: step off of GQ and chop down a tree. Two thumbs up!

People say that we're attracted to men like our fathers. Yep! My dad is a Southern with a degree and a trade...well mannered and well dressed...but he's no stranger to hard work. Lord knows why he fell for a little snobby German.

Mom, I know you're reading this...:D<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 4:02 am, Mon 18th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 18 Oct 2010 04:02:18 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5800</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #3]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5790</link><description><![CDATA[LOL!   Ok I can't believe I'm about to defend Justin Beiber.  But this whole thing with men started way before  Biebster came into the  limelight. So he's not the problem.  He's just reacting to to world around him.  In all honesty as women we have to take some of the resposibility.  How man times have we said we wanted men who where more in touch with emotions and more sentive to our needs?  How many time have we complained about always being expected to look percfect at all times while men made no effort in their appearance at all? Well now we got what we wanted. The problem is some  men have began to take it too far and we now we have to deal with it.  To a certain extent I  don't have an issue with it.  While I don't want a guy who takes longer than I do to get ready,  I have a problem with a man who puts a little effort in his apperance and wants to look good.  Yes I greatly apprecitae a man who will get rid of his back hair and cut down his toes nails so I don't all scrathed up in bed at night.   While I don't wan't man who cries over everthing.  I do like a man who can feeling things and doesn't acts like nothing ever effects him and is affaid to show any emotions.  I  guess it's all bout the guy find the right balance.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Crystal at 11:36 am, Sun 17th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Crystal)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 17 Oct 2010 11:36:15 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5790</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #4 (Reply to Comment #3)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5797</link><description><![CDATA[Crystall, So true!!!!!!! sometimes we, women are so complicated ;-)<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Judy at 2:23 am, Mon 18th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Judy)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 18 Oct 2010 02:23:25 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5797</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #5 (Reply to Comment #3)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5799</link><description><![CDATA[Justin is just my whipping post. Yuck! Absolutely, women have some of the blame. Remember Queer Eye for the Straight Guy? All of my friends forced their men to watch it and then got pissed when he because a metro. *smh*
Taking care of yourself is a must but, like you said, some men take it too far. 

I love that Greg is in touch with his emotions. He's still a WASP but he can cue emotions quite well! Men who go too far in one or the other direction worry me....like one day they'll snap and kill us all.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 3:53 am, Mon 18th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 18 Oct 2010 03:53:49 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5799</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #6]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5792</link><description><![CDATA[Tracy-n-Keisha you 2 are so right. Yep where are those real men and I know that’s right if you can’t motivate me out of my bed for a morning run you’re useless to me. Next! It starts when they are boys, anyone can ask me son what is your my favorite phrase (he’ll say one or the other) NO or just walk it off. Yes if his hand gets broken-walk off the pain, scrape knee, walk it off, walk it off, walk it off, walk it off!! And you know the world always blame us the mother when thing go wrong with our kids.

*I must say I don’t mind an hair less chest or but I do appreciate that treasure trail so I can be reminded where I should be traveling 

*As far as J Bieber, I will say Usher knew what he was doing when he signed him-there wasn’t a boy “teen idol” and JB fit the box for the young female audience there are so many others on youtube with better singing voice and dance move than JB<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Judy at 12:37 pm, Sun 17th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Judy)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 17 Oct 2010 12:37:28 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5792</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #7 (Reply to Comment #6)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5801</link><description><![CDATA[LMAO! Judy, you nailed it. Walk it off! I can't tell you how many times I heard that as a child. Hell, how many times I've said it to my kids. 

We'd spend our summers in Alabama with my dad's family...girl, us kids came up with our own remedies for scraped knees: grass, red dirt, and spit! My aunt would put alcohol on everything. That crap burned! No thank you...pass the grass and dirt.

Hairless chest are a must. I jumped for joy when I saw Greg only had peach fuzzy. Now the treasure trail is quite nice.;-)

JB can kick rocks. Don't listen to me. He's my whipping post.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 4:16 am, Mon 18th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 18 Oct 2010 04:16:52 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5801</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #8]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5806</link><description><![CDATA[My daughter (13) can't stand Beiber.......not appreciating his so-called singing and dancing at all.  She'd rather sing the parody songs because they make fun of him.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by yves wms at 11:57 am, Mon 18th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (yves wms)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 18 Oct 2010 11:57:55 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5806</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #9 (Reply to Comment #8)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5816</link><description><![CDATA[Your daughter has good taste. Well done, Yves! :)<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 1:58 am, Tue 19th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 19 Oct 2010 01:58:32 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5816</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #10]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5808</link><description><![CDATA[We're still here.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Barney Dannelke at 9:27 pm, Mon 18th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Barney Dannelke)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 18 Oct 2010 21:27:34 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5808</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #11 (Reply to Comment #10)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5820</link><description><![CDATA[Thanks goodness! Now, can you please rally the guys and retake the city? Womankind will be waiting for you. :)<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 3:02 am, Tue 19th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 19 Oct 2010 03:02:43 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5820</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #12]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5814</link><description><![CDATA[My nieces like Beiber and Trey Songz, now they don't do it for me. But what the hey they are 13 and 14 and pretty dang flighty so at some point it will shift. I hate to say it but around the 14 or 15 year old mark, I like some dudes that I would say were less than masculine in college I was serious Jason Priestly fan, really a stiff wind could have blown by and pushed him over.  LOL. But as I get older I like them more masculine, don't throw some gray hair on him, I'm effing gone with the mingly gray thing. When Will Smith and Brad Pitt got it, oww yea baby. Too men who are aging like fine wine, personally I think Brad just looks so much better now that he's older, more craggy and rough it says man all over again LOL. And that Josh Brolin, he's uber manly he does it for me. But no, if Matt stays in the bathroom more than 15 minutes I get irritated and he better not put anything in his hair it's so metrosexual. I blame this on the Queer Eye for the Straight Guy men, they really mucked it up. Keep the hair short and the cargo and t-shirts going. Dressing up means shaving LOL. Yes I am a woman that wants a man's man, the first time I'll see him in a full suit is at the wedding and that's good enough.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Eugenia at 12:58 am, Tue 19th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Eugenia)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 19 Oct 2010 00:58:06 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5814</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #13 (Reply to Comment #12)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5821</link><description><![CDATA[You're right. Remember when New Edition came out? What were our parents thinking as they watched us coming up with dance routines for "Mr. Telephone Man"? LOL!

I love well aged men...they're bloody hot! And yes, Brad and many other men look better as they age...Denzel, who has always been hot, is now SUPER HOT!

Leave Matt alone. He's dancing in front of the bathroom mirror. I can't see him Queer Eye-ing it up in there...it's not happening.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 3:11 am, Tue 19th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 19 Oct 2010 03:11:30 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5821</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #14]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5824</link><description><![CDATA[I think you need to put some historical perspective on this. There have been a few "metrosexual" types getting more than an inordinate amount of press since Oscar Wilde* started pimping floral wall paper and foppish fab gear.

Oscar Wilde [fill in the blank] Liberace  Tiny Tim  Boy George  Justin Bieber**
(I am hesitant to offer black examples but I bet you women can.)

Culture wants a template to bounce this shit off. I suspect it needs it as a means of defining the spectrum. But it passes. The percentages remain roughly the same in Western Culture for the last, I dunno, thousand years?

I get a bit discouraged because this culture has done the Barbie thing to men. I admire Brad Pitt. A lot. But I'm 51 and medium income. If I had a personal trainer and a dietitian and spent 20 hours in a gym a week I'm still not gonna ever have the FIGHT CLUB torso (even though I adopted the mind set. Any more than women are gonna have Barbie physiques. 

I sacrificed more paunch  for more brain YEARS ago. But I am looking for a good reasonably priced eye cream.  ;-)

- Barney Dannelke

*Oscar, for all of his fucking young men "like sweaty panthers" did marry and do enough hetero fucking to get out a couple of kids. And he was nearly 6'3" and threw two students (at the same time) down a flight of stairs for mocking his attire. So even he conformed to some ladies expectations. In that sense I'll take Wilde over Boy George any day.

** as for the Justin phenom - this seems more like cultural pedophilia and gives me the whim-whams.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Barney Dannelke at 9:13 am, Tue 19th Oct 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Barney Dannelke)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 19 Oct 2010 09:13:10 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5824</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #15 (Reply to Comment #14)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5839</link><description><![CDATA[Barney, you’ve made my point. It’s not so much about a man’s sexual orientation as much as mannerism and hardwiring. Oscar Wilde, Lord Byron, Beau Brummel* were notoriously gay/bi men who were still manly while being trendsetters. In their time, anyone who’d call them unmanly would probably get their asses kicked. Strange….

Women are turning the table on men. They expect a man to keep himself up as they’ve been burdened. Yea h yeah yeah, personal trainer and a dietitian and spent 20 hours in a gym aside…men need to look good. Or so many women demand. Personally, I want Greg to be healthy and happy.

And that Justin guy/girl is the devil spawn. Creepy little bugger!

*Totally useless info: Beau had a thing for cunny and rumored to be good in bed. Too bad he died penniless and insane. *sigh*<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 5:28 am Today)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 21 Oct 2010 05:28:19 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5839</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #16]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5832</link><description><![CDATA[Trace, real men have always been around.  I'm not saying I just came in from branding cattle or chopping down trees in the northwest, but I consider myself a real man.  Started working at 16, hardcore construction.  Carrying 100 lb bags of cement on each shoulder after school and on Saturdays.  My favorite memory is being knee deep in an actual sewer for 6 straight hours fixing a concrete water pipe in a city who's plumbing began in 1910.  Another personal favorite is dodging track hoes, bulldozers and cement mixers on a job site while alerting the police to the several dead bodies we'd found over the 6 months on that job.  I change my own oil in my car, change my spark plugs and wires, fix my bathroom sink and my kitchen sink...  pretty much don't call a repairman for jack shit.  Us real men are out there.  I do have to agree, with you Trace.  Where have the men gone?  I'm starting to think the only real men left are me and buddies from North Carolina and Georgia.  Maybe all the real men just live down South lol.  That wouldn't be a drastic change anyways... kind of always been that way.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Mark P at 7:09 pm Yesterday)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Mark P)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 20 Oct 2010 19:09:38 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5832</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #17 (Reply to Comment #16)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5840</link><description><![CDATA[Bless your bleepin’ heart. You’vr been through it, haven’t you? My Dad is a Southern man…both college educated (holds masters in business and architecture) and a tradesman (he inherited his family’s construction company). While my Dad hasn’t been on a roof since God knows when, he wouldn’t mind getting his hands dirty. My Dad was/is my ideal man: grounded in reality, educated, determined, worldly, crazy as hell, and in touch with his emotions.

Maybe I’m asking for a bit too much.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 5:47 am Today)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 21 Oct 2010 05:47:20 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5840</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #18]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5835</link><description><![CDATA[Can I kill a thread, or what?<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Barney Dannelke at 7:35 pm Yesterday)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Barney Dannelke)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 20 Oct 2010 19:35:27 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5835</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #19 (Reply to Comment #18)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5838</link><description><![CDATA[Whatever Barney. We've been busy. Glad you're back. :)<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 3:34 am Today)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 21 Oct 2010 03:34:20 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5838</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #20]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5844</link><description><![CDATA[Tracy writes: *"Totally useless info: Beau had a thing for cunny and rumored to be good in bed. Too bad he died penniless and insane. *sigh*"

I was aware of the Doctor Who and Terror of Tiny Town references to him but that was new information. Where did you come across that tidbit? Is it in the addendum to THE PEARL?

As for what I quoted up there - Man, I am nearly four for four. Now all I need is an outrageous wardrobe.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Barney Dannelke at 8:41 am Today)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Barney Dannelke)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 21 Oct 2010 08:41:17 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/612/What-Happened-to-Real-Men.html#Comment5844</guid></item></channel></rss>