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<channel><title><![CDATA[Interracial Erotica - Comments for blog: 8 Reasons You Might Consider Dating a White Woman: Follow-up]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[https://interracialerotica.net/erotica]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>blueartllc@gmail.com</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2011 22:19:59 CST</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #1]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6608</link><description><![CDATA[I have an issue with #7 and truthfully I dont give a flying #@$% what color you are. I expect the man I am with to be financially stable. He doesn't have to be financially wealthy just financially stable.

I don't think I'm shallow because i expect a man to pay the damn bill when he asks me out. And I don't think I'm shallow if he asks me to put minutes on his phone and I say hell no. I have a monthly plan damit and I make sure my bills are paid before I party.

Yes I have a problem with a man who live at home with his mother because he can't afford rent. Yet he is driving a damn escaled. and the ride is fully decked out with a TV and sound system. He parties every weekend and is wearing jeans that cost $300 but can't buy his lunch at work and bitches that he wants the leave his mothers house.

And yes the hell it is funny if your trying to impress a woman or a man and your card declines. you should have made sure there was money on it before swiped it.

And I'm sick and bloody tired of people blaming slavery for their down fall. get the hell out of the damn river called denial. They are the ones keeping them selves down and no one else. Let it go already and get the hell up off your ass. If I have to get up and go to work I will be damned if your going to sit on your ass in my house while I pay all the dam bills. 

I understand things happen and people lose their jobs and yeah for awhile I will support you. but don't think your going to become worthless because i will drop your ass like a bad habit. So excuse the hell out of me if i'm not going to continuously throw you pity party. I'll fix your resume, help you with mock interviews, I'll even buy you a tie. but you will not wallow in pity and sing woe is me.  

Tracy excuse my rant. I tried so hard to ignore the other post and I was doing great until this came along and I read 7<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Sherece at 10:05 am, Thu 30th Dec 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Sherece)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 30 Dec 2010 10:05:32 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6608</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #2 (Reply to Comment #1)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6611</link><description><![CDATA[Preach! Sherece, you know I love you like a sister. You and Pam are soooo much alike. No kidding, she just said the exact same thing. It has nothing to do with race....there are plenty of dead beat folks and they're not ALL Black.

Lady, I could hug you. Welcome to the Ames family!<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 12:03 pm, Thu 30th Dec 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 30 Dec 2010 12:03:27 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6611</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #3]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6609</link><description><![CDATA[OK!  so as a respone to an acrticle that generalized and sterotyped  black men.  This dumb ass think it would be a smart idea to writes a article  generalizes black woman?  He really  thinks that he can say "just kidding"  and that will  somehow make his ridiculous articls funny to black women.  If he wanted to make his point about the stupidity of the   "8 Reasons to date a white man".  He should have simply  just addressed the inacurracies of the article not come up with a article that just as inmature and childish.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Crystal at 11:02 am, Thu 30th Dec 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Crystal)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 30 Dec 2010 11:02:13 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6609</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #4 (Reply to Comment #3)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6610</link><description><![CDATA[You get it!! That's been my whole point....well, part of it. You can't fight stupidity with these sort of post...not when you're reaching out to the smarty pants of woman-kind.

There still, the Black women who co-signed and slapped each other high fives when Black men were under fire are suddenly pissed when the shoe is on the other foot. It’s not so funny now. That’s the reason I posted the follow-up. If we allow anyone, Black, White, male or female, to make grand sweeping statements or feed into racially bias stereotypes, then we’d better line up for our beating because we just might be the next victim in the crosshairs.

You & Sherece, my lovely sisters, got the freakin’ point!<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 11:52 am, Thu 30th Dec 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 30 Dec 2010 11:52:17 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6610</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #4 (Reply to Comment #3)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6614</link><description><![CDATA[Tracy this article came out a couple of days after the original and you're right all the bw who were so down the 8 Reasons to Date a White Man article were suddenly gasping and swooning and cluthing their pearls at this one. I just thought, 'are you kidding' you can't be mad at someone for coming at you with the same foolishness you endorsed a day or two ago. I don't like stereotypes, they suck and they're lazy way of thinking. This world is so full of lazy, non-critical thinkers it's ridiculous. I didn't like the first article and no I didn't like this one and the poor people these folks have now generalized 'white men and women and black men and women' are getting stuck with this nonsense. I know sorry people of every vain, I don't associate but yea I know them. I know great people of every race and gender, those people I associate with and if I judged anyone due to lazy thinking like this, I would have missed out on some great people. And yes, saying 'I'm kidding' don't make it better b/c somewhere in this he is not kidding.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Eugenia at 4:44 pm, Thu 30th Dec 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Eugenia)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 30 Dec 2010 16:44:11 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6614</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #6]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6612</link><description><![CDATA[Wow, for having a Ph.D, this person did NOT do their homework. I think that you are right, Tracy, in saying that this author might have just wanted some attention. This whole article comes across as some sort of racial joke, but it's just not funny-and saying "just kidding" at the beginning does not excuse their behavior.

It is things like this that only serve to stigmatize one group of people or another for something so petty as skin color. Our differences as people should be celebrated and honored, not laughed at. What would this world be without difference among people of all colors, cultural backgrounds, religion, or even sexual orientation. We all need to just stopped trying to categorize people by physical attributes.

I will say that I am a white male. I was born a white male and have no more control over that then where I was born. Same goes for everyone else. One is born into their own gender or race and we are equal in that respect. What differentiates us is our social or ethnic upbringing-those experiences that shape us. Why should all people not be given the same opportunity to be proud of who they are no matter what their skin color or ethnic background may be.

I see this so often where I am living here in the South. I was born in the Northwest and grew up not really learning to despise those physical differences in people. I've lost friends over comments made to another because of petty differences. Well, let's just say that they weren't really good friends if they judged others by such standards.

I am similar to Tracy in that I've lived all over the world and learned something from every culture I've visited. Why is it that right here in America, we still have such an issue with race? I've had friends of many different races and cultures and found the differences in these people (because of their personal upbringing, not their outward appearance) to be intriguing and exciting, not something to be feared, laughed at, or ridiculed. Being from the Seattle area, I grew up with many Japanese and guamanian friends, and it seems odd that they have not been singled out as a race as much as those of African descent. Why do we (mostly white folks) in America, harbor such ill feelings towards blacks? Black men or black women.

Not bragging but, throughout my life, I've dated white women, black women, Korean, Japanese, Guamanian, and Indian women and found their differences to be from cultural upbringing more than skin color. I've found unique and beautiful things in all of these women because I embraced their uniquiness instead of fearing or ridiculing it. Why can't we all do the same. We will never stop this hatred and animousity until we can learn to get past our petty insecurities and see other for who they are on the inside, not the outside. Yes, I understand that race and culture are part of who we are but that is reason for celebration, not fear or ridicule.

Okay, let me get off my soapbox now. I just hate when someone that is supposed to be intelligent posts something like what is shown here in the form of some kind of joke.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by JL Stratton/Ellison James at 12:33 pm, Thu 30th Dec 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (JL Stratton/Ellison James)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 30 Dec 2010 12:33:00 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6612</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #7 (Reply to Comment #6)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6639</link><description><![CDATA[Well said and you're absolutely correct on all points. It wasn't too long ago when people who were thought to have come from ‘bad blood’ were condemned even though they themselves were perfectly fine. I equate their treatment to race relations as well: just because one comes from a particular group doesn’t mean they should be demonized. If that be the case, then everyone would be screwed up in some way, shape or form.

I only use the ‘bad blood’ case as an example because some people are more compassionate towards the mental challenged regardless of race. It’s when the compassion is set aside that the douchebaggery seeps in. It shouldn’t be so; we born into our ethnic groups and that’s an end to it.

In my opinion, one of the reasons Americans harbor such ill feelings towards blacks is because no one knows how to talk to about OUR shared past. Whites didn’t want to bring up the subject fearing Black will blame them or demonize them for their forefathers behavior….while Blacks, even right thinking, are often at a loss/don’t know where to start. Sometimes, it’s this slight hesitation that makes Whites uncomfortable….then their uncomfortable ness translates into arrogance which angers Blacks….their anger makes Whites standoffish or afraid….which Blacks see as them calls us savages or barbarians….which (if it gets to this point) everyone takes their balls home and misunderstandings are born.

It’s no one’s fault this happens; fault is found when no one comes back to the table and stays there through the uncomfortable ness until we stop the madness. We all agree, our shared history is horrible but it’s our history and it should be addressed. Whites and Blacks alike are fully aware that those stereotypes aren’t indicative, but in this compartmentalized world, we shut down, grab what’s ours and live a novocained existence from the people around us.

Everyone is sort of peeking out of their curtains at the world seeing Blacks as savages, Jews as money hungry, and Spanish as worthless…while Whites despise everyone, Asians are shady, and the Arab cultural are on the brink of killing us all.

It’s sad, really. Things have changed a great deal! But the more we allow people (such as the folks who wrote these articles) to drive the wedge in farther, the longer we’ll continue on the same silent path.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 5:28 am, Sun 2nd Jan 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 02 Jan 2011 05:28:16 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6639</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #8]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6617</link><description><![CDATA[I read this back in October and it STILL pisses me off, I still cannot decide which of these two are the bigger idiot.

Number 8 REALLY pisses me off, the generalization of fathers in the home speaks to me of a person with bitterness either towards his mother or father. 

My mother would always tell us to look pass the wrappings of a person, you can't look at someone thinking this person is good due to their looks or that person is bad for the same reason. Her quote which I used with my own kids, "You can bag up dog poo and place it in a Tiffany box but it is still dog poo. Look beyond the box, take a look inside a person because that Tiffany box can/may cause pain but a plain box can/may bring you immeasurable joy."

The so called doctor is an insecure idiot, if not then his response to the first idiot was to break down the "color" issue entirely showing her men are men and women are women. The color of our skin does make us women.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Carol at 5:49 pm, Thu 30th Dec 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Carol)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 30 Dec 2010 17:49:35 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6617</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #9]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6626</link><description><![CDATA[This was not clever, witty, or even remotely intelligent. If he had a rebuttal to the original article, he should have constructed it in a way that actually expressed his frustration with BOTH black and white men being unfairly stereotyped. Instead he pulled out some pseudo sociological bullshit reasons for tension within black male/female relationships. Culminating in the most offensive piece of dribble I have read in quite some time, reason 8. What world does he live in where white women don't come from single parent homes? Or where their father's weren't absent. The previous 7 were equally foolish but for some reason number 8 is what really has me seeing red and I grew up in a two parent household. This is such a hot topic when addressing "issues" affecting the black community that putting it in his list minimizes the importance of "healthy" role models in a child's life, if they live in the home with them or not.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Janet Eckford at 2:56 am, Fri 31st Dec 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Janet Eckford)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 31 Dec 2010 02:56:34 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6626</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #10]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6653</link><description><![CDATA[What I find amusing and sad is that when this idiot wrote his response to the original article, he only received 128 comments, while Madame Noire’s LaShaun Williams public response was overflowing with over 1000 comments. 

I hope one day majority of blacks, men and women would move beyond being stuck on each other and hating one another with endless toxic negativity and nasty perceptions from media to church. Date, sex, marry whomever you want and forgot about justifying it to others or demeaning your own, whether its our communities or mainstream society.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Hodan at 11:56 pm, Sun 2nd Jan 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Hodan)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 02 Jan 2011 23:56:43 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6653</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #11]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6656</link><description><![CDATA[I really didn't want to say anything about the lack of comments on the the follow-up post. However, I was thinking the exact same thing. If we're ever going to live freely, the lines on communication have to be completely open and we have to come to the table with an open mind. We have so much to learn from one another. 

Someone once told me that the reason people don't date/marry outside of their race is because their culture or faith holds them back and it should be done away with (in this case it was a WASP & a Hindu). I don't believe people should cast these things aside nor do I believe it should hold them back.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 12:14 am, Mon 3rd Jan 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 03 Jan 2011 00:14:51 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6656</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #12 (Reply to Comment #11)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6660</link><description><![CDATA[I believe the lack of comments is mainly do to the facts that black women have been the punching bag of the black community, black men in particular (in the US at lease). Its like the song 'creep' by TLC or 'Bills' by Destiny child, where every male rapper had the need to responds, which reaffirm what the song was saying in the 1st place. 

We don't see black women responding to the media, from movie to music of stereotyping them from being sluts to a-sexual, or the unattractive loud ghetto trash. Black women developed thick skin when it comes to the country they live in and by now have such low expectations from their community that the article as this so-called Dr. doesn't face them. Its like what is new, mostly black women rarely if ever go on publically trashing their own despite amble evidence to do so.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Hodan at 12:29 am, Mon 3rd Jan 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Hodan)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 03 Jan 2011 00:29:32 CST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/684/8-Reasons-You-Might-Consider-Dating-a-White-Woman-Follow-up.html#Comment6660</guid></item></channel></rss>