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<channel><title><![CDATA[Interracial Erotica - Comments for blog: I Love Self-Reflection & Chicken Wings]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[https://interracialerotica.net/erotica]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>authortracyames@gmail.com</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 14:31:32 CDT</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #1]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7366</link><description><![CDATA[Tracy, honestly, you guys are so..........civilized, LOL!  Your ex-boyfriend and your husband are buds?  Damn! :)  As for your girlfriend, please!  Some people just "got it like that"!  Apparently, your personality fills a room.  ::shrug::  I don't know what's to be insecure or upset about.  I admire those who can command a room without effort or knowledge.  They are who I aspire to be but will never be and I'm good with that.  I don't think you need to reflect on anything; and I don't think you have anything to change or fix.  You notice your husband never mentioned it till you had to pull it out of him.  That's telling me he doesn't see a damn thing wrong but if you needed to hear it and he had to oblige.  Just keep being fabulous Tracy Ames<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Debbie B at 7:46 pm, Sat 19th Mar 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Debbie B)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 19 Mar 2011 19:46:30 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7366</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #2 (Reply to Comment #1)]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7369</link><description><![CDATA[Lady, you're so sweet. Greg's cool with most of my exs! It's the weirdest thing but it works. *shrugs*  If there are minor tweaks I can make then I'll do so. How the hell do you change something you didn't realize you were doing? Okay, I still don't see it. Yah my mom is gonna sort this one out.

Debbie, you're absolutely fine the way you are. You and Pam B. crack me up but you also make me think. I love it.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 9:22 pm, Sat 19th Mar 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 19 Mar 2011 21:22:52 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7369</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #3]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7370</link><description><![CDATA[I am going to make an effort to be serious.

We all have our gifts. You have the ability to make everyone feel at home.  You don't judge, you're funny and even when you rant you're nice about it. There is nothing that needs changing.  You didn't go into that conversation with your friend and the guys with the intention of stealing the spotlight, but rather with the intention, at least it is how I feel when I am on the site and when I talk to you, of allowing everyone to be heard. There is no ego involved.  That is probably what was really bothered your friend, that you natually have the ability to draw people to you. You seem not to have to work at it, where talking in social setting is torturous for others. You are just a really kind and generous with yourself. Everyone responds to that. It's a good thing-no couch time necessary.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Olga at 9:32 pm, Sat 19th Mar 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Olga)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 19 Mar 2011 21:32:23 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7370</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #4]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7371</link><description><![CDATA[Olga, you're a dear. :(  You know it takes a whole lot to make the gloves come off. If I'm pissed it's for a very good reason. Besides, I don't do bitter very well and I'm not quick to judge. I'm a Domina and write erotica! Do I really want people making snap judgments about me?

I will make an effort to throw folks into the spotlight....you know, the one I didn't know I was stealing. I can't stop thinking about it. <br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 10:04 pm, Sat 19th Mar 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 19 Mar 2011 22:04:28 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7371</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #5]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7372</link><description><![CDATA[TA you b****, I’ll scratch your eyes out for stealing my spotlight. Lmao TA you are fine just the way you are. Some people will always find fault(s) in your strength(s). The fact that you were not aware of that specific moth-like personality trait shows that it’s not being done deliberately and maliciously. As a “friend” Ms Chica should have known that-don’t let ones insecurity dampen your personality. Your girl is the one who need to "self-reflect". (Girl take the spot light!!! Here’s why I would benefit (1) that means there’s more wings for me and (2) you distract everyone and I the angelic one can commit the crime of the century and no one would see it coming. Perfect the moth and the angel. P.s. since Greg is a member of “The Circle” I must hold all comments for 24hrs-tomorrow the gloves come off)<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Judy at 10:18 pm, Sat 19th Mar 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Judy)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 19 Mar 2011 22:18:14 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7372</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #6]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7373</link><description><![CDATA[I second Olga's thoughts. The fact that you sensed or even noticed something was wrong indicates the type of person you are.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Lydia at 11:23 pm, Sat 19th Mar 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Lydia)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 19 Mar 2011 23:23:00 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7373</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #7]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7374</link><description><![CDATA[Third to Olga's assessment. People are draw to warm and generous personalities, not just flash and pomp. I don't even know you, but consider the things that are evident: the premise for your site, bringing authors and writers together; no ads because you don't want to annoy readers; you are crazy in love with your Hubby, and good friends with an ex (which means that you don't cut people up when you break up); and you worry about being compelling because you don't want to alienate others. That adds up to warm and generous. Especially in a world where so many others are trying to bolster themselves by making other people feel small, a personality that attempts to lift other people up is going to be a big draw to anyone nearby. Really, it's almost like you're providing a public service. :) Didn't know that you were a Domina! SWEET. So now I must add that it's your job to be compelling! Rock on, lady. Somebody has to take responsibility for being awesome for all the RIGHT reasons.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by BJ Thornton at 8:22 am, Sun 20th Mar 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (BJ Thornton)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 20 Mar 2011 08:22:28 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7374</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #8]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7376</link><description><![CDATA[I agree with everyone. Your not the one who needs to change anything. There is nothing wrong with having a generous and  approachable personalilty. There nothing wrong with wanting people around you  to feel included and comfortable.  If there are people who are intimidated by that fact hat you possess these quality and that it naturally draws people to you. That's there issue not yours. They are the one who need to look at themselves and make some changes not you.<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Crystal at 10:53 am, Sun 20th Mar 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Crystal)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 20 Mar 2011 10:53:57 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7376</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #9]]></title><link>https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7383</link><description><![CDATA[you don't need to do anything!  Just accept your fate Trace!!!!!  It's not hard to see why you're the center of attention.  Besides the fact that you are one of the most smokin' hot women I've ever seen you're also sweet, kind (almost to a fault) and are so damn easy to talk to.  Why do you think I always come to you when I need an opinion or when I have a problem?  I think you're the center of attention for a good reason, not a bad one.  Just accept the awesomeness that is Trace!!!!!!<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Mark P. (El Diablo) at 12:26 am, Mon 21st Mar 2011)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Mark P. (El Diablo))</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 21 Mar 2011 00:26:21 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">https://interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/750/I-Love-Self-Reflection-amp-Chicken-Wings.html#Comment7383</guid></item></channel></rss>