I’m currently in the middle of our weekly writers chat (I really should be paying attention). Today’s topic of discussion is the uses and distinction between the words cum and come.

Writers who prefer to use the word come are often heckled for being grammatically incorrect.

Here’s how it was put to me early on:
Come is the act of orgasm
Cum refers to the fluid itself.

So coming and cumming are interchangeable, right? Not really. There are those in the literary community who can’t abide the usage of cumming and readers who would much prefer to read coming.

Why is cum and cumming considered crude?

I guess it goes back to your take on cock verses dick. It’s a matter of personal taste. I instinctively use cum and cumming—there’s no rhyme or reason. I just do it. I’m more put off by jizz, spunk, and spittle. Running across those words in a story equates to hitting a brick wall at 80 mils an hour. They literally cripple me.

This heated debate has raged for years. No matter how loud everyone shouts,.I doubt we’ll get to the bottom of it within the next thirty minutes. Blimey….




Tomorrow, I’ll be updating the plagiarism post with new developments. Grrr!!!